Being good friends before dating
Sometimes people do not take the time to look beyond what they see or hear to truly understand someone’s true personality.
Once they get into the relationship and see how certain aspects of that individual’s personality do not meet their standards, that’s when they tend to lose interest and fall out of love with that person.
However, I became a manager of our girl’s soccer team in high school, and he also did shortly after. We both easily could tell we liked each other, but we wanted it to take its own course. I was able to see his fun and corky side, which got me to like him more and more as a person.
I felt comfortable around him and I wanted to get to know him on a deeper level.
So I’m going to go over my top 10 reasons why two people should be friends before making it official.
When two people first meet, the attraction between them is usually sparked by a certain that vibe they received from each other.
We are able to have real conversations, nothing fake.Instead of taking things too fast, how about we take things slow for once and see what could happen.I took my own advice and went at it during my second semester of senior year. I was able to get to know him as a person, without the awkward pressure of feeling like we needed to date.The boys I dated in high school all ended up leading to short relationships because I did not build a friendship before becoming committed to them.
I think this is one of the biggest mistakes females make in our society. We don’t even think about building that sense of trust and friendship before actually dating because we are too strung up on the idea of “needing” a boy in our life.
With high school coming to an end, we never really attempted to date because there was no point since we both would be attending different colleges.