Dating someone 16 years younger
The only thing that really matters is the 18 rule seeing as how that can get you arrested... However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt. Defending your relationship will frequently ruin your friendships. Unless it's just a fun, sexy, baggage-free throw-you-over-your-desk situation where nobody gets hurt at the end. There's probably a reason no woman his age wants to date him. You'll end up alienating the friends who are dropping truth-bombs such as the one above. Sleeping with him might be a bigger emotional deal for you than you think. It's great how you guys are on the same emotional level, right!
I went through all of the issues in my head thinking, Sometimes, I'd actually pick fights out of insecurity, just so I could utter the lines, “Maybe you'd be happier with someone who for certain has all of her eggs,” or, “Perhaps, you want someone who isn’t on a timeline of starting a family.” I am not a “cougar," the horrible label given to women who date younger men.
And you were some 20 year old with the attitude of a 17 year old, of course you wouldn't do well in a relationship.