Dating someone different from you
In the end, our bodies just want to prevent inbreeding, so we look for a mate with diverse genes in comparison to ours.Like we talked about before, dating someone too much like yourself would become stifling, boring, and wouldn’t stimulate your personal growth after a while.pposites attract, but they don’t make the best partners. He didn’t want to go on dates so much as little adventures in the city. Your perfect match may not always be the person you expect.We can all be quick to judge when it comes to dating, but what if we took more chances and looked past our first impressions?Compatibility when online dating is a pre-requisite but going beyond that, if you are willing to try something or someone new, a wildcard (or an e Harmony ‘What If’) could bring unforeseen benefits. Someone who has a different makeup to you is exciting and intriguing.
He wanted us to brainstorm a better version of how we hooked up.“Can’t we just tell people we met at a book festival? This story would be a complete lie, our little secret. But pop culture oversells the idea of opposites attract. We love when two characters fall in love and we don’t expect them to, or when they shouldn’t.
I’m not talking about full on arguments about evolution, but having someone challenge you allows you both to have healthier discussions and outlooks on life.